The Relationship Coach Podcast
Destroying Sex Myths with a Sexologist | Dr. Anne Ridley

Destroying Sex Myths with a Sexologist | Dr. Anne Ridley

May 26, 2019

Can all women reach orgasm through penetration? Does penis size matter? What are you missing in your sexual space? Questions about sex? Today we talk with sex expert Dr. Anne Ridley.  


Dr. Anne Ridley, DHS, MA, CL has been a therapist for over 18 years, helping singles and couples find and maintain love. As a Clinical Sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology, she uses her knowledge as a love, sex and relationship expert in her private practice, online courses and radio show as well as in media and print.

Dr. Anne is also the owner of Santa Fe's only luxury pleasure boutique, Modern Aphrodite.

Dr. Anne has a strong reputation as a dynamic therapist, sex positive healer, and expert on love, sex and relationships. She is extensively trained in communication skills and has a natural talent for cutting thorough to the heart of the matter in a way which people can hear. She believes her purpose is helping clients navigate the interpersonal relationship with themselves, and in turn they will have more fulfilling relationships with others.

Confessions of a Matchmaker | Julie Ferman

Confessions of a Matchmaker | Julie Ferman

June 1, 2019

How to understand men. How to understand women. Dating advice for men. Dating advice for women. Online dating advice. Dating advice. Looking for a dating coach? Here you go!

Julie has personally (one-on-one) worked with literally thousands of people in the world of dating and has insights that most of dream of. Wouldn't it be nice to sit down and pick the brain of a matchmaker? You'd probably get a ton of insight on how to, and not to, navigate the world of dating. On this episode we are doing just that!

As with every show, we are not just scratching the surface but going in deep. Whether you are looking for the highest romantic relationship on your path, or just looking to overcome the fear of dating, you don't want to miss this show in it's entirety!

The Relationship Coach Podcast Episode #2 with legendary matchmaker Julie Ferman and your host Devon Loomis.

Relationship Training | Mary Archibeque

Relationship Training | Mary Archibeque

June 10, 2019

Relationship training including understanding body image issues, communication, sex, meeting emotional needs, the purpose of love, and learning to be vulnerable or transparent? Let's get our relationship education on! In this episode of The Relationship Coach Podcast episode #3 we explore these topics as well as many others with therapist Mary Archibeque who is also a personal trainer - quite a unique combo, RIGHT!?

Mary has some very unique insights into this thing we call romantic love and reminds us that relationship begins with ourselves. Buckle up for a lively, insightful and conscious training on higher romantic relationships with Devon Loomis and Mary Archibeque.

A little but about Mary: I use a compassionate strength based approach to help you be your best self, live a fulfilling life, and realize your potential. I specialize in lifestyle coaching, relationships, anxiety, depression, addiction and trauma. I'm certified in EMDR, an expert in addictions, and I'm a former personal trainer. I work with individuals who are new to therapy and those with high self awareness seeking ongoing improvement. I'm passionate about empowering women. I see the best in you. Together we'll improve your relationships, self-worth, and help you regain wholeness and balance in body, mind, Spirit, and relationships. WOMEN'S HEALTH: Confidence, awareness, alignment, self care, Spirituality. ADDICTION/RECOVERY: Drugs, porn, sex, love, gambling. We'll get to the underlying cause. COUPLES: Communication, trust, intimacy, Gottman Method, 5 Love Languages. LGBTQ: Coming out & self acceptance SEXUAL ASSAULT: PTSD, trust, healing, taking your power back, post traumatic growth I'm passionate about what I do! It's a privilege to witness clients return to balance and live meaningful lives. I believe in treating the body, mind, and Spirit. Through this holistic approach to therapy you can reconnect with your true self and live authentically.

The Love Doctor | Dr Suzanne Lopez

The Love Doctor | Dr Suzanne Lopez

June 16, 2019

Love, sex and relationships from many different angles. If you would like relationship advice from a top expert, if you would like help with your relationship, this show has some jewels for you.

Delve deeper into relationship education with The Love Doctor and The Relationship Coach. Dr. Lopez and Devon Loomis offer uniquely different perspectives on navigating love, sex and romantic partnership. There's valuable dating advice, sex advice and relationship advice for everyone in this episode.

About The Love Doctor - Dr Suzanne Lopez:
Author, therapist and love relationship expert, Dr. Suzanne Lopez, has recently relocated from the Hollywood Hills to Albuquerque, New Mexico. The author of Get Smart with Your Heart and Love Match or Mismatch, she has made frequent television appearances on such shows as Leeza, Sally Jesse Raphael, Montel Williams, Jenny Jones, Ricki Lake, Maury Povitch, The Other Half, Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus, as well as NBC and ABC news and a host of radio shows. Dr. Lopez's colleagues and long-time friends include The Secret’s Michael Bernard Beckwith and Jack Canfield. Like them, the dynamic and charismatic author/practitioner has successfully used “The Secret” both personally and professionally.

Formerly the director of The Institute for Unlimited Human Potential and an adjunct professor at Antioch University in Los Angeles, Suzanne now runs her own practice and production company in Albuquerque, NM.

Dr. Lopez's career in psychology has spanned over two decades and includes a practice in individual, couple, and group therapy. She has extensive experience in such specialized fields as chemical abuse, codependency, sexual addiction, family counseling, crisis intervention, couples coaching, grief work, energetic integration and women's issues.

Dr. Lopez is a national speaker and conducts seminars and workshops through The Institute of Unlimited Human Potential and for national organizations and corporations on such subjects as woman's empowerment in the workplace, communication skills, stress management, sexual harassment, the changing workplace and the balancing one's professional and personal life for optimum fulfillment. She also facilitates seminars and workshops in both Los Angeles and New Mexico on "The Secret" and "Core Energetics". Her client list includes individuals, couples, and groups, from high-powered film executives, to creative artist and adolescents.

Suzanne has studied extensively on both coasts, attending USC, New York University, University of California Santa Cruz, and she received her masters degree in psychology from California State University.

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All About Polyamory | Mim Chapman

All About Polyamory | Mim Chapman

June 24, 2019

What is polyamory? In this episode of The Relationship Coach Podcast we explore polyamory, open relationships, swinging, group sex and many other forms of alternative relationships and sexual interaction. Poly or polyamory are buzz words these days but do you understand what they really are?

With polyamory expert Mim Chapman and The Relationship Coach - Devon Loomis we explore alternative lifestyles - but not from the typical superficial lens. This is real sex education.

Hopefully after this show you will not only understand what poly or polyamory is, but have some insight into navigating open relationships, swinging and other alliterative lifestyles.

About Mim:

Author of What Does Polyamory Look Like

Mim Chapman, Ph.D is an educator, a learner, and a change agent. Her work experience includes commercial fishing, civil rights activism, marine salvage, political lobbying and fundraising, and education. She has led three school restructuring projects, a lobbying effort which changed a major federal fisheries law, and created a series of women's seminars that led to the formation of the Cordova Family Resource Center. She has taught elementary to graduate school levels; been an administrator in a community college, a K-12 school, and a middle school; worked in large east coast urban schools and tiny Eskimo villages, from the Caribbean to Nova Scotia to Alaska.

She now focuses on relationship coaching, training seminars, and writing.

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Life After Suicide | Angie Corbett-Kuiper | Grief and Loss

Life After Suicide | Angie Corbett-Kuiper | Grief and Loss

June 30, 2019

Grief and loss are an intrinsic part of the human experience. Losing a loved one to suicide can be one of the most painful circumstances one can go though. Loosing a child to suicide is something only those who have been through can truly relate to. What if you lost your son and husband to suicide - in a short period of time?

In this episode of The Relationship Coach with speaker, writer and radio host - Angie Corbett-Kuiper and The Relationship Coach - Devon Loomis, we explore not only moving beyond grief and loss in all areas of life, but thriving as a result of the experience.

I know it sounds paradoxical, but if you are suffering from the loss of a relationship, a loved one to death or any type of loss, this show may help you see a higher perspective and offer you some healing insight into the process of grief, loss and life after suicide.

About Angie:
In the space of a year, I survived the suicides of two of the people closest to me: my older son and my second husband. I could have easily chosen to curl up in the fetal position and die myself, yet I have chosen to be an example, to show there is another way, a different way in which to move forward.

The pain of grief and loss is an intense, intimate, and human emotion. One that promises to bury us with our loved ones if we aren’t careful. Suffering, however, is a choice.

My purpose is to share my own experiences to show that through choice, present moment-awareness, and most of all keeping an open mind that our loved ones are never gone. They’re just hidden from view.

I believe I have created a very different, positive and uplifting approach to this part of life we call death - one that includes our loved ones. I invite you to join me on my experiential journey of wonderment and curiosity in proving that our bodies are merely shells of our souls and that our loved ones are still right here.

I bring humor and a sense of lightness to working with loss. I do not judge the journey. I give people permission to cry and feel their intimate pain, rather than self-medicate to avoid it.
My background working in bio pharmaceuticals first made me a skeptic. I’m used to statistical analysis, weighing the numbers and arguments and looking for evidence to support claims. However, my experiences have taught me that it is necessary to utilize both sides of our brains, the analytical left-brain as well as the intuitive and creative right-brain.

Through my own experiences, I wish to change the current self-limiting beliefs, taboo and stigma of death to one of acceptance, understanding, and ultimately joy in this aspect of our lives as well. I continue to share my experiences and those of others and how they have helped me live death in a very different light.

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All About Hypnotherapy with Dr Sapien

All About Hypnotherapy with Dr Sapien

July 6, 2019

Would you like to know what hypnotherapy is? Is hypnotherapy effective? What's the difference between hypnosis and hypnotherapy? Does hypnotherapy work? Let's ask a hypnotherapy expert who is also a distinguished professor of emergency medicine and pediatrics.

In this episode of The Relationship Coach Podcast we explore one of the most effective techniques of transformation that I have ever encountered with physician and hypnotherapist Dr. Sapien. This episode is all about hypnotherapy. We explore, from an objective, medical perspective what hypnotherapy is and whether it's effective or not.

We dispel many of the myths about hypnosis such as stage hypnosis and Dr. Sapien offers up large peer reviewed studies in addition to his own research. We also talk about the best training for hypnotherapists - quite possibly in the world - The Hypnotherapy Academy of America.

About Dr. Sapien: Robert E. Sapién, MD, MMM, FAAP, FIBH is a Distinguished Professor of Emergency Medicine and Pediatrics and serves as Chief Medical Officer for SapienWellness.

Dr. Sapién, a native of NM, received his medical degree from the University of New Mexico, School of Medicine, and a Master of Medical Management at the University of Southern California, Marshall School of Business. After Pediatric training at Harbor-UCLA Medical Center and Emergency Pediatric training at LA County-USC, he returned to NM and established the only Pediatric Emergency Department. He has been a practicing physician since 1986. Dr. Sapién completed hypnotherapy training at the Hypnotherapy Academy of America in 2005 and is a co-founder of the International Board of Hypnotherapy.

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For my Empaths with Candice Thomas Intuitive

For my Empaths with Candice Thomas Intuitive

July 14, 2019

Are you an empath or partnered with an empath? Are you highly sensitive, highly intuitive, psychic? How do you not take on other people's energy? Do you get easily overwhelmed? What is an empath? If you are a highly sensitive person/empath or are partnered with an empath, we did a whole show just for you!

In this episode of The Relationship Coach Podcast with Intuitive Candice Thomas, we explore what an empath is, what a highly sensitive person is, psycihic abilities, how to navagate the world as an empath and many other compelling topics.

If you have difficulties being hyper-sensitive, if you would like some insight and tips into living as an empath, this is just the show for you. If you tend to take on other people's energy and pick up on other people's thoughts and get overwhelmed by it all, this should comfort and entertain you.

Intuitive - Candice Thomas and The Relationship Coach - Devon Loomis, explore the topic of empaths, psychic ability, intuition and navigating romantic relationships as a highly sensitive person. This is for my empaths!

About Candice:
I show high performance entrepreneurs, professional artists, and leaders who feel called to make a significant impact in the world how to answer their calling and achieve their goals in an accelerated timeframe. My clients have a proven track record of making an impact in the lives of their clients, fans, partners, and community and yet seemingly get stuck in the same-o patterns that hold them back from getting consistent income, opportunities, or the greater exposure they need to do the work they feel called to do.

By the time they get to me they have spent thousands of dollars and even more hours on different programs, coaches, therapy, and healing modalities ranging from psychic readings to energy healing and yet they can’t break free of the invisible barrier between them and the success they intuitively feel is coming. I teach clients how to understand and use their intuition to 1) find and eliminates the barriers holding them back and 2) get direct intuitive insights about what to do next in their work. This has resulted in my clients having significant breakthroughs in their business and career. I call it results-based woo-woo.

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Buddhist Psychology with Ruth Ordonez

Buddhist Psychology with Ruth Ordonez

July 20, 2019

Are you familiar with eastern psychology? Would you like to learn about Buddhist psychology? In this episode we explore eastern philosophy, Buddhist philosophy and Buddhist practices as they apply to our lives and romantic relationships.

In the episode of The Relationship Coach Podcast with Integrative Psychotherapist and spiritual companion - Ruth Ordonez, we explore meditation, eastern or Buddhist psychology and how to apply Buddhist or eastern practices into our lives. We also explore the difference between western and eastern psychology. In addition, we delve into practical practices to expand our awareness and transcend limiting beliefs and programming.

Expand your consciousness with Ruth Ordonez and The Relationship Coach - Devon Loomis.

About Ruth:

I offer Integrative Psychotherapy, a unique blend of Buddhist Psychology, meditation, qi gong, somatic processing, shamanism and western modalities like CBT and Community Reinforcement Approach (for addiction.) Our work together is designed to get you out of your head, into your body, and living your truth in the NOW.

In addition to psychotherapy, I also provide Spiritual Companionship and Meditation Instruction services. It's an honor and privilege to walk alongside others on their spiritual and healing journeys. Check out my website and call me to schedule a complementary phone session.

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The Path of Forgiveness with Shara Moscinska

The Path of Forgiveness with Shara Moscinska

July 28, 2019

Forgiveness is one of the most difficult things for us to do - but one of the most important. Forgiving is an intrinsic part of living a healthy, full life. Self forgiveness is key to the healing process.

In this this episode of The Relationship Coach Podcast, "The Path Of Forgiveness", we explore forgiveness from many different angles with therapist Shara Moscinska. What is forgiveness. How to forgive. Different forgiveness techniques.

If you are struggling with forgiving yourself or someone else, or just want to live a deeper, more meaningful life, this show is for you. The spiritual path of forgiveness with host Devon Loomis and Shara Moscinska.

About Shara:
Shara is a teacher and psychotherapist in private practice specializing in community mental health and spiritual development. Her approach validates the invisible powers of life, such as consciousness and self-awareness, affirming that as we attune to our interior and live from it, our outer life becomes a coherent expression of meaning.

Shara has over 15 years of clinical and administrative experience working at such agencies as the Albuquerque Family and Child Guidance Center, the New Dawn Intensive Outpatient Treatment Program, and the Santa Fe Rape Crisis Center, in addition to private practice.

She has been an instructor for the U.S. Department of Justice, Office for Victims of Crime (OVC) National Victim Assistance Academy, co-created the OVC Sexual Assault Advocate/Counselor Training, and has facilitated trainings throughout the U.S. on crisis intervention, trauma resolution, vicarious trauma, developing resilience, spiritual development, communication, ethics, and self-care.

Shara has a M.A. in Counseling from Southwestern College and a B.A. in Liberal Arts from St. John’s College. As a Kosciuszko Foundation Scholar, she studied at the Jagiellonian University in Krakow, Poland and traveled widely. Shara is a graduate of the Quimby Amenti Mystery School and Noetic Field Therapy Practitioner Program, and with mentorship from Robert Waterman, Ed.D she teaches a Mystery School at Unity Spiritual Center in Albuquerque, NM and also trains and supervises practitioners in forgiveness-based healing.

She is graduated from the inaugural class of Richard Rohr’s Living School in September 2015, which is affectionately known as an “underground seminary.” Life in its essence and the hard, rewarding work of attending to her marriage and two young children is, hands down, her greatest teacher (and blessing) of all.

Noetic balancing:

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